Child custody strategies

In a divorce, contest the issue of custody of the child's parents often hot. Assuming that both parents fitness and desire of the child, the courts face decisions difficult to make in the interest of the child. As parents is arm are a calm and clear of Information Act, on how to better serve your child's interests to affect the battle of custody of the children in your favor. MediationIn some States, judges order the child all the case to participate in the mediation. In the field of mediation works with parents to reach agreement in the case an impartial third party. Visit mediation with your inquiries in the matter and spirit open for what you are willing to compromise agreement. Let your anger and grief interfere with your desire to achieve a realistic agreement for your children. In the absence of exceptional circumstances, you will continue with the other party for the rest of the minority of the child, co-parent agreement paves the way for successful negotiations with the other parent life.In later in the CourtIf achieve it fail to reach an agreement on custody of children, the case before the courts be heard. At the hearing parents hear the judge and sometimes evidence shown by either party. Very few judges are concerned to commit evil actions during the marriage or perceived atrocities against the other parties. Focus to controls, and only keep the case to the question of children. Depending on the circumstances either party demand the judge can order a ad Litém either a review of the custody of children or a guardian. These experts meet the parents and children and wish to inform the Court on the respective situations of life for children and other alsRationen. All requests for the SAchverständigen comply with the Court. You remember suspect made appear. Do speak negatively not attack, the other parent, these interviews and coach not t Enfantso about the other parent. This makes search poorly your uppercase and expert handling of the child. Submit your best side and coherent figures why you best are suitable for the care of children.Dress beautiful Court and time display. If you appear, your lawyer is to tell your side of the story, but counsel for the other parent is interrogated take and try to show why you are wrong. It's his job. Stay calm, to say the truth and try appear not defensive. When some negative information comes if you are a victim of cross-examination, counsel, your work is "Rehabilitation" on the review of you redirect to you. He or she will explain questions that will help you questions themselves and better assess yourself. Not to mention of at least asked a question and answer, the question posed. If it a "Yes" or "No" question, answers "Yes" or "".rations a battle of the child, is very rarely any advantage only get whatever he or she. The other parent will be always a part of the life of your children, even if you win child custody. Promote a positive relationship between your child and the other parent. Keep your ex in the loop on activities, school and medical issues. To reach the time changing circumstances and enjoy your children when both parents adapt to your needs and changing schedules.