How to make shared custody work to make

The key to the successful joint custody is hard work, the rules and schedules. It is frustrating challenging but very rewarding for your child.Difficulty wait: ModerateInstructions1Realize, although you and your partner is more like a few that can run you should continue as parents together work. Aside set your anger and meal and resolve to work for the well your child 2Expect have differences of opinion which together. After all, distributed for any reason. If you do not agree, do not attempt to your child do and try to find a way to compromise. It is too late to change. You must learn to focus on your together. 3Talk other parent of the child. You and your spouse must find a way to communicate with each other, if you are for all parents. If you do not communicate parent you effectively as a team. 4Bite your language. Learn not to pursue any arguments that arises. See warning divided as a job, you need to. You can't get to perform their job if you all spend your time a list of rules to follow arguing. 5Make partnering with parents. For example, no support in before the child be courteous to each other, be considerate to other person where possible and especially your child first put. 6Form some basic rules for things as time of the sunset as television is allowed when homework must be carried out, etc., from and follow you in both houses. Two sets of rules is too confusing for children. Have a few rules for you to wash the clothes of the child where equipment and sport are retained the school, who buy clothes etc. 7Set calendar and will follow. Possible sit vouns with a schedule and decide where the child will be every day. Slasheiben, and make sure you keep a copy. Make a calendar that easy to remember will be and easy to follow. You distinguish want each flexible week. 8Be. The consciousness which will propose things and changes the schedule must be made to the needs of your child and the other parent. More cooperative and you are relaxed, the easier, it will be 9 plan be. procedure an application to change the schedule. For example, Nonemergency, that all changes in at least 24 hours in advance. 10Consider feelings of your child requested must be. Many children feel strongly about a basis do tether and experts often say that it, is preferable if a child has a place to call home. Do feel everything your child comfortable. 11Work activities your child to make. Miss your kids to soccer practice, because it was the afternoon of the other parent. Keeping you your child in activities involved will help to normalize the situation for him or her. 12Get if you need. It might be useful to resolve the work with broker calendar. It may be also useful find therapists a few to help learn to work together as co-parents.