How to win custody of the child in a conservative state as a lesbian wedding leave

Submitted by user ArticleAfter years to life - maybe even yourself, you have realized you are lesbian and to be with a woman. Keep custody of your children will not be easy, but it can done.Difficulty: ChallengingInstructionsThings, need better: run TimeA AttorneyFinancial good AdviceThe children interests mind1Keep your sexuality of your husband if you after the divorce. While honesty must be lawyers in red States will tell you, that, if he decides he use this information to fight for - and maybe win - only custody. 2Get your own lawyer. Represented interview candidates on your story, clients gay and lesbian lawyer. Discover your personal opinion on same-sex parents: If a lawyer of a violation, he or she is you not represented with conviction. The best lawyer is often one, the other was successfully situations. 3Before similar filing for divorce, remove half of the money in the shared to open accounts and accounts on your own behalf. This may seem paranoid, but if you do not first can't your spouse - and legal - all the money. 4Keep connected take all your belongings - documents relating to divorce or E-mail - love letter from a friend or a parent computer or in their home. You don't want, your husband to play "my children can do with a gay parent lives", after he learns the existence of your friend and quotations, the him in court. 5Only displayed children say what is necessary and appropriate to the age. To advice, divorce can be if possible. 6If you children time complete, get better a settlement of maintenance you know work for divorce. The judge will be attempting to hold constant live children as much as possible-with her father, financial support and provide the childcare. 7Stay home (creation of your own room in the basement if must be) even any if Vousenvisagez to your own household after the divorce to implement. When you leave the "home", it could compromise often the best solution for children your chances. 8Know child between parents live is close to one another joint custody. You can provide ample access to both parents and still not school bus and play with friends every day, neighbourhood which "weekend", which he is. 9Know your ex may submit even if you reveal your sexual orientation after the divorce, custody based on a "change in the circumstances." more children were changed into custody arrangement, after the judge is divorce it, maintain the status quo.